What is Expected of a Hospice Patient's Primary Caregiver?
Providing Most of the Care
Your loved one is seriously ill. Now that they're home from the hospital, you realize they are not just your loved one-now they're your patient. It can be scary to know that you are responsible for the care and well-being of a terminally ill loved one. And, even though you may have the help of members of a trained hospice team who visit each day, you are in charge of your loved one's care.
El servicios of the hospice team are not meant to take the place of the primary cuidador, but to supplement the care the patient is already receiving. The hospice team can be reached any time during the night or day for help, but you should expect to be the one who provides most of the care the patient receives on a day-to-day basis.
Responsibilities of the Primary Caregiver
What does it mean to be the primary caregiver of a hospice patient? Here are some of the responsibilities most primary caregivers have:
- Personal care of the patient—This involves helping the patient stay clean and comfortable, such as assistance with bathing and going to the bathroom, applying lotion to dry skin,
keeping teeth clean, shaving, washing and combing their hair, providing clean clothes and bed linens and making sure the nails on their hands and feet are trimmed.
- Medications—As the primary caregiver, you will make sure the patient has all their prescriptions filled and that correct dosages are given at the proper times. This can include anything from pills to syrups to patches to injections.
- Medical care—This could involve cleaning and changing the bandages on pressure ulcers, taking their temperature, applying ice or heat or taking blood pressure readings.
- Medical equipment—It is up to the primary caregiver to be well versed in how to use the patient’s equipos médicos including oxygen machines, wheelchairs, lifts and hospital beds.
Three Things That Make Life Easier
But take heart. There are a few things you can do to help make the job of primary caregiver a little easier:
- Take full advantage of the hospice team members’ visits. Take this time to ask lots of questions, since the more you know, the more confident you will feel. Or, while the hospice aide is giving your loved one a bath or the nurse is checking vital signs, take this time for a cup of tea alone to rest and recharge before resuming your duties.
Get plenty of sleep. Don’t let worries and fear keep you awake and ruminating all night. Rest is critical for you to stay alert and sharp, even if it means napping when your loved one sleeps or asking your doctor for a sleep aid.
Ask family and friends for help. Taking care of someone else all day is draining and can cause you to become isolated. Family and friends want to help; don’t be afraid to ask.
Remember, you may have to be the primary caregiver of your loved one, but you don’t have to do it alone.